Monday, September 5, 2011
Trey is dead
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Food for thought - Help someone!
One day, when I was a
freshman in high school,
I saw a kid from
my class was walking home from school..
His name was
Kyle.
It looked like he
was carrying all of his books.
I thought to
myself, 'Why would anyone bring home all his books on a
Friday?
He must really be
a nerd.'
I had quite a
weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow
afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.
As I was walking,
I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.
They ran at him,
knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the
dirt.
His glasses went
flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from
him..
He looked up and I
saw this terrible sadness in his eyes
My heart went out
to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his
glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.
As I handed him
his glasses, I said, 'Those guys are
jerks.'? ?
They really should
get lives.
' He looked at me
and said, 'Hey thanks!'
There was a big
smile on his face.
It was one of
those smiles that showed real gratitude.
I helped him
pick up his books, and asked him where he lived..
As it turned out,
he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him
before.
He said he had
gone to private school before now.
I would have never
hung out with a private school kid before.
We talked all the
way home, and I carried some of his books.
He turned out to
be a pretty cool kid..
I asked him if he
wanted to play a little football ?
with my
friends
He said
yes.
We hung out all
weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and
my? ? friends thought the
same of him.
Monday morning
came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books
again.
I stopped him and
said, 'Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile
of books everyday!
' He just laughed
and handed me half the books.
Over the next four
years, Kyle and I became best friends..
When we were
seniors we began to think about college..
Kyle decided
on Georgetown and I was going to
Duke.
I knew that we
would always be friends, that the miles would never
be a
problem.
He was going to be
a doctor and I was going for business on a football
scholarship..
Kyle was
valedictorian of our class.
I teased him all
the time about being a nerd.
He had to prepare
a speech for graduation.
I was so glad it
wasn't me having to get up there and speak
Graduation day, I
saw Kyle.
He looked
great.
He was one of
those guys that really found himself during high school.
He filled out and
actually looked good in glasses.
He had more dates
than I had and all the girls loved him.
Boy, sometimes I
was jealous!
Today was one of
those days.
I could see that
he was nervous about his speech.
So, I smacked him
on the back and said, 'Hey, big guy, you'll be great!'
He looked at me
with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and
smiled.
' Thanks,' he
said.
As he started his
speech, he cleared his throat, and began
'Graduation is a
time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough
years.
Your parents, your
teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your
friends...
I am here to tell
all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give
them.
I am going to tell
you a story.'
I just looked at
my friend with disbelief as he told
the ?
first day we
met.
He had planned to
kill himself over the weekend.
He talked of how
he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and
was carrying his stuff home.
He looked hard at
me and gave me a little smile.
'Thankfully, I was
saved.
My friend saved me
from doing the unspeakable..'
I heard the gasp
go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his
weakest moment.
I saw his Mom and
dad looking at me and s miling that same grateful smile.
Not until that
moment did I realize it's depth.
Never
underestimate the power of your actions..
With one small
gesture you can change a person's life.
For better or for
worse.
'Friends are
angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how
to fly.'
There is no
beginning or end.. Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is a
mystery.
Today is a
gift.
Monday, February 22, 2010
Who are your friends?
The people I call friends are mostly battle tested standing by me when others walked away. Further often they piss me off, not because they are evil rather because they tell me what I need to hear and not what I want to hear!
How do I know? Because they will not benefit regardless, especially if I did what they asked – fact is often by telling me what they did they actually risked loosing a friend if I was the superficial, insecure, egotistical type (not to be confused with hypercritical or manipulative – totally different). Sometimes they commented on my observed behavior – painful to hear yet true.
- Who are your friends?
- How long have you known them?
- How do you quantify then?
- Do/would you trust them with your life?
- If it is true that your friends are your mirrors – what do your mirrors collectively say about you?
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Being in LOVE (from my friend Angel)
Think back to when you met
that man/woman that you just knew
would be the one.
Remember when you
realized/admitted to yourself
that you loved him/her.
Now remember how much you
wanted to act like you were in a movie
and yell to everyone in the football stadium 'I love
(fill in the name)!'
You told family and friends
how perfect he/she was;
he/she was just what
you were looking for.
Well, I told THE LORD
that I love Him today.
And He said to me,
'How much do you love me?
You haven't told anyone
how good I've been to you.
You haven' t shared
how perfect my love is.
You haven't spread the good news
that I am always there
to listen to your problems.
You haven't told your family
how I helped you pay your bills
when you didn't have a high paying job,
or how I got you a better one.
You haven't shared with anyone
how I took away that addiction
that would have cost you not only your job,
but also that man/woman
that was just what you were looking for.
So how much do you really love me?'
So I said I would share with
my friends and family (for starters)
just how wonderful, perfect,
understanding, patient, loving, unselfish,
considerate and forgiving GOD really is.
He has blessed me
with a family that loves me
and friends that I can confide in.
But even more than that,
He has saved me from destruction
I couldn't even see coming..
He gave to me the peace
of knowing Him and
He has never broken a promise.
Truly,
He is the best thing that has
ever happened to me.
And I stand in my stadium today
to tell all of you,
'I DO LOVE THE CREATOR
WITH ALL OF MY HEART!'
BE BLESSED & SHARE THIS
WITH SOMEONE ELSE
HAVE A BLESSED DAY!
ANGEL



