Showing posts with label Personal Development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Personal Development. Show all posts

Monday, October 5, 2009

Success - Positive Character Traits

SO often people talk about success and achievement and yet they forget true success without ethics is not possible. We claim we want something yet we so often forget the why and the how.
  • Why do you do what you do?
  • How do you describe success or achievement?
  • How do you define success?
  • How do you define achievement?
  • What characteristics do you associate with success?
  • What is performance to you?
  • What do you look for in people admire and respect?
  • Do you have those traits?

Why do I ask these questions - because many are not fulfilled and seek things and people as well as create situations that are to our detriment instead of our benefit - why?

This post may make some of you think and may bore others - however it is my hope some have an ah ha moment!








Consider this - it is not what a person or firm says or does when things are wonderful - rather the true test of character is what happens and how business is conducted when nothing is going right!

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Self Sabotage - what is it and how to address

So often we are the authors of our own shortcomings setting ourselves up for failure and stealing defeat from the jaws of victory. Here is a simple concept - until you deal with the hate you have of yourself you will typically always do yourself harm - further if you hold prejudice, bias or hate for another that is also most likely a projected form of self hatred which will lead to sabotage because we were never allow ourselves to have any more than we think we are worthy of and deserve and if we hate ourselves we will look for reasons and continue behaviors over and over again that lead to our demise.















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